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  1. Nadirah
    January 22, 2018 @ 2:40 pm

    I’m so proud of you Shev. You know my story and we all have them; stories, testiments of this thing called life. You are beautiful inside and out (no shade, it’s a family thing, lol) and I’ve always looked up to you. You are the best extended big sister ever, no matter the distance. Much love and keep inspiring.

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    • Shevvymac
      January 22, 2018 @ 3:17 pm

      Hi Na,

      Thank you for commenting and yes, what we have gone through are life lessons which made us stronger.

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  2. Leshae
    January 16, 2018 @ 1:09 pm

    Shev, this was great! You know what I went through and can’t totally relate ! We are true testaments in that life after divorce exists. Hope this helps many, thanks for sharing chica! 😘

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    • Shevvymac
      January 16, 2018 @ 9:06 pm

      Hey Shae,

      Thank you for reading and I know you story and you are a strong woman. Yes, life gets better after divorce because we have grown and know what we want and won’t accept.

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  3. AnnMarie John
    January 8, 2018 @ 6:05 pm

    I’ve been married 13 years and during our 12th year I wanted out. I even wrote about it on my blog. However, we sat down with a therapist and together we both worked on our marriage. Sometimes you not only need Jesus as Jacklyn above stated, but you also need an unbiased party to sit in and listen to you, but most of all both of you need to want to make the marriage work. If you’re the only one putting in the effort then it’s not going to work and it’s best to just be alone and happy than in a relationship where you’re miserable. I wish you all the best!

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    • Shevvymac
      January 8, 2018 @ 7:08 pm

      Thank you for sharing Annmariejohn, Yyes both parties has to want it and counseling is great when both individuals are truly honest in that process. I am happy to read that you and your hubby worked it out! Relationship has to be fun and excitement where you both grow together. Again thank you and I wish blessings upon your marriage!

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  4. Jacklyn
    January 8, 2018 @ 5:38 pm

    It takes a third party for a successful marriage. His name is Jesus. I’ve been through a divorce and it’s draining but I’m very glad that I left that relationship.

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    • Shevvymac
      January 8, 2018 @ 7:12 pm

      Thank you Jacklyn,

      We do have to call on Jesus, I called on his name many times during my transition for guidance. A marriage should not drain you because if you are drained all the time then it’s time for a self reflection.

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  5. Latrice
    January 7, 2018 @ 9:01 pm

    Wow! That was very uplifting and inspiring to me! Thank you for inviting us into your life and sharing your own experience with us so that we are able to put our lives in perspective. You made some amazing points. I pray that someone can grow from the knowledge that you have shared.

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    • Shevvymac
      January 8, 2018 @ 7:16 pm

      Thank you Latrice,

      I too hope that others can use the information provided to assist them in their transition or to just evaluate their relationships. The goal is to have a healthy partner.

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