After fifteen years in a marriage and newly divorce, I’m a newly single woman who is ready to focus on me. Fifteen years ago, I got married had two kids and that is where I put all my time and energy into along with my job. As a mom and wife this what we do, we forget about us. We make sure everyone is happy, fed and living life while we are exhausted from doing everything. Being a mom is an amazing opportunity, but ladies it’s time for us to make ourselves a priority in the process.
I’m making myself a priority by focusing on me, and after a year of being single and living alone I’m excited to see what adventures are awaiting me.
During my year of singleness, there were some benefits that I encountered which all single women should embrace. Being single has allow me to accepts the fact that I can live alone and be happy. So many people are afraid to be alone. The comfort of being relaxed and free to do what I want without answering to anyone or being question is amazing. As I transition into this new adventure, I am ready explore and try new things. Here are the four ventures that I am ready to explore:
Learning about me- This is so important for us to learn about ourselves daily. As a single woman I’ m learning to live freely which as empower me to take more risks without questioning what if and instead just take action.
Meet new people- Yes, I’m ready to see what options are available out there. It’s has been a year of chilling without a companion. I’m ready for someone to make me laugh and converse with daily on the phone and not through text. I’m ready for dinners, movies, shows and more. I’m excited about getting back into the dating game, it has been a long time.
Travel– I’m ready to travel to different countries and see the beauty from different lenses and a clearer mind. I want to see new scenic views, diversity, consume new dishes, and meet new people along away. And living in the United Kingdom is a great place to jump start my travel adventures. My plan is to take one trip per month to see what new awakening I will discover about myself.
Time- Being single, I’m able to reinvest my time back into me. I’m able to get up and go. I’ve learn that being single you love yourself more, you become focus on becoming a better version of yourself. You pamper yourself and you make new friends because you get out and network instead of staying at home.
To all my single women, I want you to own and embrace your singleness! its an opportunity to learn about you , your needs and yours wants out of life. If you find yourself living the singleness life take it as a time to explore until somethings else comes along.
Question: What tips do you have for single men and women?
“Motivation Accountability Change”